Mary and Max: parents' guide
Best for ages 14 and up. Not formally rated.
A darkly funny, deeply sad claymation story for teens and adults, not young kids despite the clay figures. A lonely Australian girl and a middle-aged New Yorker with Asperger's become pen pals across two decades. It deals frankly with alcoholism, depression, anxiety, bullying and death: Max recalls his mother's suicide, Mary's alcoholic mother dies after drinking embalming fluid, and an adult Mary stands with a noose around her neck before being interrupted. There are crude jokes about sex and brief clay nudity. It was never rated by the MPA. Best for about 14 and up, with a parent.
What's in it
Violence
ModerateMostly dark comedy: a mime is killed by a falling air conditioner and Mary's father is swept away by a wave. Bullies beat young Max and torment Mary, Max's mother's suicide is heard as an offscreen gunshot, and Max briefly starts to strangle a man.
Language
ModerateNo swearing of concern, but bullies chant an antisemitic slur ('Jewboy') at young Max, and 'wog' and 'poo face' are thrown around as insults.
Sex and nudity
ModerateFrequent crude references: dogs mating, a child's muddled idea of where babies come from, Mary asking Max about 'sexing,' and a condom-factory joke. Max is shown fully nude in clay, and Mary and her husband are implied to have sex.
Drinking, drugs and smoking
StrongMary's mother is an alcoholic who swigs sherry and chain-smokes, and she dies after drinking embalming fluid while drunk. Depressed adult Mary drinks heavily and reaches for pills, and a man smokes a joint at a bus stop.
Scary or intense scenes
ModerateSad more than scary: Max's panic attacks, his months in a psychiatric hospital with shock treatment, a string of pet deaths played as dark jokes, Mary's suicide attempt, and the discovery of a main character's body near the end.
Sensitive topics
- Suicide
- Death of a parent
- Bullying
- Addiction
- Animal death
Worth talking about
Max and Mary ease each other's loneliness, but their friendship nearly breaks over one hurtful mistake. Ask your teen what it takes to forgive, and where someone struggling with depression can turn for help.
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Checked October 13th, 2026 against Common Sense Media, childrenandmedia.org.au, Wikipedia, bbfc.co.uk. The age is our judgment, not an official rating, and every family draws its lines differently: read the notes, not just the number. Spotted something we missed? Tell us. How we rate.