Movie · Comedy, Drama · 2017 · R

Lady Bird: parents' guide

16+our pick

Best for ages 16 and up. Rated R for language, sexual content, brief graphic nudity and teen partying.

A funny, tender coming-of-age drama for older teens and their parents, following a Sacramento high school senior through her last year at home and her prickly, loving fights with her mother. Most of it is talk, arguments and small rebellions, but the R is earned: frequent f-words, a teen's first sexual experience shown briefly, a quick shot of full-frontal male nudity in a magazine, teens getting high on pot, and drinking that ends with a hospital visit. There is no real violence. We suggest 16, watched together, when the college pressure and family tension will feel familiar.

What's in it

Violence

Mild

Almost none. During an argument the heroine throws herself out of a moving car and breaks her arm; the camera stays inside the car, so the fall isn't shown. Otherwise just shouting matches.

Language

Strong

Strong: one counted review found about 15 f-words and five s-words, plus two uses of the c-word, other crude terms for anatomy, "bitch," "asshole" and misuse of God's and Jesus' names.

Sex and nudity

Strong

A teen's first time with her boyfriend is shown briefly, with her on top in a bra, and it ends fast. A quick shot of Playgirl photos shows full-frontal male nudity. Teens make out, sex talk is frank, and masturbation is alluded to.

Drinking, drugs and smoking

Strong

Teens smoke marijuana and get high, smoke cloves and cigarettes, and drink at parties. At a college party she drinks until she vomits and wakes in a hospital. A parent starts antidepressants, and a priest's son is said to have died of an overdose.

Scary or intense scenes

Mild

Nothing scary. The emotional weight comes from constant mother-daughter fighting, a father's job loss and depression, money worries, and the jarring moment the heroine leaps from the moving car.

Worth talking about

Lady Bird and her mother clearly love each other but keep saying the wrong thing. Why is it so hard for them to show it, and what might help?

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Checked October 13th, 2026 against Common Sense Media, Plugged In, christiananswers.net. The age is our judgment, not an official rating, and every family draws its lines differently: read the notes, not just the number. Spotted something we missed? Tell us. How we rate.