Series · Comedy, Drama · 2020 · TV-14

Trying: parents' guide

14+our pick

Best for ages 14 and up. Rated TV-14.

A gentle British comedy about a London couple who can't conceive and set out to adopt, better suited to teens than younger kids. Most of the story follows the adoption process, then parenting two children with difficult pasts and the ups and downs of family life. Adults talk about sex a lot, the first episode opens with the couple having sex, fully clothed, on a night bus, and the swearing includes s-words and British insults. Drinking at pubs and parties is common. There is almost no violence. Age 14 reflects the steady sex talk and language.

What's in it

Violence

Mild

Very little. Comic moments include Nikki snatching a stranger's phone and hurling it into a pond. Arguments and minor mishaps, but no one is seriously hurt in the episodes reviewed.

Language

Moderate

Regular s-words, about seven in the first episode by one count, plus British insults like "prick," "wanker" and "bloody," and frequent "oh God." Reviewers did not report f-words.

Sex and nudity

Moderate

Sex is a constant topic since the couple is trying to conceive. The opening scene shows them having sex on a night bus with their clothes on, and another cuts away as they tumble into bed. A friend's affair ends his marriage. No nudity.

Drinking, drugs and smoking

Mild

Adults drink often at pubs, dinners and gatherings, including a man who downs three glasses of wine and then can't drive. No drug use or smoking is reported.

Scary or intense scenes

Mild

Nothing scary. The strain is emotional: infertility, setbacks in the adoption process, the children's painful history and questions about their birth mother, and the deaths of Jason's grandmother and, in a later season, the children's grandmother.

Worth talking about

Nikki and Jason learn that adopting means welcoming kids who come with their own histories. What do you think makes a group of people feel like a family?

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Checked October 13th, 2026 against Common Sense Media, Plugged In, ageratingjuju.com, Wikipedia. The age is our judgment, not an official rating, and every family draws its lines differently: read the notes, not just the number. Spotted something we missed? Tell us. How we rate.