The Irishman: parents' guide
Best for ages 17 and up. Rated R for pervasive language and strong violence.
A long, slow and somber Scorsese crime epic for mature teens and adults with the patience for three and a half hours. Robert De Niro plays an aging hit man looking back on decades of mob work and his friendship with union boss Jimmy Hoffa. Killings are frequent and sudden, with point-blank shootings, blood spattering walls, a strangling and bodies disposed of. Profanity is constant, with roughly 130 f-words, and characters smoke and drink throughout. There is almost no sexual content. The graphic violence and pervasive language are why we suggest 17.
What's in it
Violence
StrongFrank kills many people on screen, often point-blank, with blood spattering walls. A man is shot in the head on a sidewalk, German prisoners dig their own graves before being shot, and there are a strangling, car bombs, a beating and a cremated body.
Language
StrongConstant. Plugged In counted about 130 f-words and more than 20 s-words, and Movieguide counted over 200 obscenities in all. Also 'motherf---er,' other crude terms, God's name misused, and ethnic slurs and stereotypes.
Sex and nudity
MildVery little. Frank has an affair with a waitress he later marries, a topless casino show is mentioned, and men sit shirtless in a steam room. No sex scenes or nudity.
Drinking, drugs and smoking
ModerateCharacters smoke cigarettes and cigars almost constantly and drink often in bars and nightclubs, some to excess. One man gets tipsy on vodka-soaked watermelon. No drug use is shown.
Scary or intense scenes
ModerateKillings arrive abruptly, often of characters we have come to know, and Frank's young daughter watches him beat a shopkeeper. The final hour dwells on aging, guilt and his grown daughter's refusal to speak to him.
Worth talking about
Frank's daughter stops speaking to him because of what he does. What does the film say about the cost of loyalty to the wrong people?
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Checked October 13th, 2026 against Common Sense Media, Plugged In, the MPA, movieguide.org. The age is our judgment, not an official rating, and every family draws its lines differently: read the notes, not just the number. Spotted something we missed? Tell us. How we rate.