The Boy and the Heron: parents' guide
Best for ages 11 and up. Rated PG-13 for some violent content/bloody images and smoking.
A dreamlike, often strange Miyazaki fantasy about a grieving boy who follows a talking heron into a magical world, better for tweens and up than for young Studio Ghibli fans. It opens with his mother dying in a wartime hospital fire, and soon after he deliberately hits his own head with a rock, leaving a bloody wound. The other world has man-eating parakeets with knives, a gutted fish, swarms of frogs and a figure that melts. Language and romance are minimal, and adults smoke. The self-injury and grief are why we suggest 11.
What's in it
Violence
ModerateMahito strikes his own head with a rock, leaving a bloody wound and a scar. Knife-wielding parakeets hunt people, pelicans are blasted with fire and one dies of its wounds, a big fish is cut open with guts spilling out, and a schoolyard fight breaks out.
Language
MildMild only: damn and dammit about six times combined, plus dang it, turd and shut up. No stronger words were noted.
Sex and nudity
NoneNothing beyond a glimpse of the boy's father and aunt embracing and kissing. The father has married his late wife's younger sister, who is pregnant.
Drinking, drugs and smoking
ModerateAdults, including a maid and an old man with a pipe, smoke cigarettes. Mahito takes cigarettes from his family to trade for a servant's help, though he doesn't smoke them himself.
Scary or intense scenes
ModerateNightmares show his mother in flames, and the other world is full of eerie images: frogs piling onto a person, a toothy bird-man, someone dissolving and ghostly figures. Peril is frequent but rarely sustained.
Sensitive topics
- Death of a parent
- Self-harm
- Bullying
- Animal death
Worth talking about
Mahito hurts himself and lies about it rather than say how he feels. Why might someone do that, and who could he have turned to?
On our lists
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Checked October 13th, 2026 against Common Sense Media, Plugged In, movieguide.org, Rotten Tomatoes, bbfc.co.uk, Wikipedia. The age is our judgment, not an official rating, and every family draws its lines differently: read the notes, not just the number. Spotted something we missed? Tell us. How we rate.