Series · Horror, Thriller · 2019 · TV-MA

Servant: parents' guide

16+our pick

Best for ages 16 and up. Rated TV-MA.

A slow-burn psychological horror series for older teens who can handle grief and dread. After a wealthy Philadelphia couple's infant son dies, the mother copes by caring for a lifelike doll, until a mysterious young nanny arrives and things turn uncanny. The baby's death drives everything. Later seasons add a cult, a woman buried alive, a grieving mother who prepares a noose, self-harm, a drug overdose, stabbings and a finale in which a character cuts herself and walks into a fire. A dog and live eels are killed. Expect frequent f-words, affairs and brief sex scenes. We suggest 16.

What's in it

Violence

Strong

Jarring and at times gory: a chef slices open burn blisters and nails live eels to a board, and a dog is killed. Later seasons add a woman buried alive, stabbings with red-hot blades, one through an eye, and a fatal shooting.

Language

Strong

Frequent f-words: Plugged In counted four in one early episode, more than a dozen in another and 15 in the season 2 premiere. Also s-words, crude terms for body parts and sex acts, and some misuse of God's name.

Sex and nudity

Moderate

Affairs and sex, mostly implied or brief, with the camera cutting away. A bath scene hides private parts, and the nanny massages the mother's breasts in a charged scene. The mother's brother has sex with a family friend and later with the 18-year-old nanny.

Drinking, drugs and smoking

Strong

Wine and whiskey flow all day and characters get sloppy drunk. The mother's brother is an alcoholic who snorts cocaine, overdoses at a holiday party and is revived, then goes to rehab. A therapist slips melatonin into the mother's tea.

Scary or intense scenes

Strong

Constant unease built around a dead baby, a mother's breakdown and a nanny with eerie powers. Expect a cult, a seance, body horror, a grieving mother who has to be talked down from a noose, the nanny whipping and cutting herself, and a fiery finale.

Sensitive topics

  • Death of a child
  • Suicide
  • Self-harm
  • Addiction
  • Overdose
  • Animal death

Worth talking about

The show is about how grief can drive people to deny reality. Talk about healthy and unhealthy ways of coping with loss, and why the family keeps covering things up instead of facing them.

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Checked October 13th, 2026 against Common Sense Media, Plugged In, Wikipedia, justwatch.com, ageratingjuju.com. The age is our judgment, not an official rating, and every family draws its lines differently: read the notes, not just the number. Spotted something we missed? Tell us. How we rate.