Waltz with Bashir: parents' guide
Best for ages 17 and up. Rated R for some disturbing images of atrocities, strong violence, brief nudity and a scene of graphic sexual content.
An animated documentary for older teens and adults, not a family film despite being a cartoon. Director Ari Folman interviews fellow veterans to recover his lost memories of Israel's 1982 war in Lebanon and the Sabra and Shatila massacre. Expect combat deaths, a veteran haunted by the 26 dogs he shot, and a closing switch to real news footage of massacre victims, including a child. It also animates a pornographic video in explicit detail, shows full nudity in a dream, and includes a few f-words and a joint. Best for about 17 and up, and worth talking through afterward.
What's in it
Violence
StrongSustained wartime violence: firefights, shelling, soldiers killed in an ambush, a veteran remembering shooting dogs, and a boy who fires a rocket-propelled grenade gunned down. It ends with real news footage of massacre victims' bodies, including a child.
Language
ModerateInfrequent but strong. Movieguide counted seven obscenities, including some f-words, and Common Sense also notes 'a--hole.' Most dialogue is in Hebrew with English subtitles.
Sex and nudity
StrongSoldiers watch a porn video that the film animates explicitly, with intercourse in several positions. A dream shows a soldier lying on a giant naked woman, and there is other full male and female nudity, plus characters in underwear.
Drinking, drugs and smoking
StrongBrief: a veteran the director visits in the Netherlands smokes what appears to be a marijuana joint. Soldiers and adults drink, sometimes to drunkenness, and characters smoke cigarettes.
Scary or intense scenes
StrongHaunting throughout: the film opens with a pack of snarling dogs charging through city streets in a veteran's nightmare, the war scenes are surreal and tense, and the real massacre footage at the end is deeply disturbing.
Sensitive topics
- Death of a child
- Animal death
Worth talking about
Folman realizes his mind blocked out what he saw. Ask your teen why people bury painful memories, and what responsibility bystanders carry when atrocities happen nearby.
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Checked October 13th, 2026 against Common Sense Media, movieguide.org, the MPA, bbfc.co.uk, Wikipedia. The age is our judgment, not an official rating, and every family draws its lines differently: read the notes, not just the number. Spotted something we missed? Tell us. How we rate.