I, Tonya: parents' guide
Best for ages 16 and up. Rated R for pervasive language, violence, and some sexual content/nudity.
A darkly funny but often brutal true-story drama about figure skater Tonya Harding, for older teens about 16 and up. The comedy sits beside realistic abuse: her mother hits and berates her as a child, and her husband repeatedly beats her, slamming her into walls and leaving her bloody. Language is relentless, with about 130 f-words and several uses of the c-word. There are sex scenes with movement but little nudity, a strip club with topless dancers in pasties, constant smoking and drinking, and a brief marijuana scene. Rabbits are shot and skinned.
What's in it
Violence
StrongRealistic, repeated domestic violence: a mother beats her young daughter and later throws a knife into her arm, and a husband punches, slaps and slams his wife into walls. A shotgun is fired during a fight at home, and boxing bouts are bloody.
Language
StrongPervasive: Plugged In counted about 130 f-words and 25 s-words, plus three uses of the c-word, frequent misuse of God's and Jesus' names, and crude gestures.
Sex and nudity
ModerateSeveral sex scenes between Tonya and her boyfriend, later husband, with movement but no explicit nudity; his bare backside is glimpsed. A strip club shows topless dancers in pasties, and her brother grabs her chest.
Drinking, drugs and smoking
StrongNearly everyone smokes, including Tonya right before skating. Characters drink beer in bars, a man is pulled over drunk, and Common Sense notes skaters taking bong hits in a hotel room.
Scary or intense scenes
ModerateThe abuse scenes are frightening and emotionally raw, with a little girl cowering from her mother and a wife terrorized at home, even though the film often cuts away for jokes.
Sensitive topics
- Domestic abuse
- Child abuse
- Animal death
Worth talking about
Tonya keeps returning to the people who hurt her. Talk with your teen about why leaving an abusive relationship is so hard, and how the film's jokes change the way the abuse lands.
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Checked October 13th, 2026 against Common Sense Media, Plugged In, movieguide.org, the MPA, moviemom.com. The age is our judgment, not an official rating, and every family draws its lines differently: read the notes, not just the number. Spotted something we missed? Tell us. How we rate.