The Banshees of Inisherin: parents' guide
Best for ages 16 and up. Rated R for language throughout, some violent content and brief graphic nudity.
A darkly funny but bleak Irish fable for older teens about a man who abruptly ends a lifelong friendship, and the feud that escalates from there. Swearing is near constant, and the violence comes in sudden shocks: a man cuts off his own fingers and the bloody results are shown. A troubled young man is beaten by his father and implied to be sexually abused, a beloved donkey dies, and one death appears to be a suicide. Brief full-frontal male nudity and heavy pub drinking round it out. The self-harm and the animal's death are the likeliest to upset.
What's in it
Violence
StrongA man chops off his own fingers, and the bloody hand and severed fingers are shown. A police officer beats his son, who is bruised, and is implied to sexually abuse him. Punches, a knockout, a house torched with a man inside, a drowned body.
Language
StrongNear constant: Plugged In counted about 50 f-words, mostly the Irish 'feck,' plus seven or eight s-words, 'bollocks,' 'wanking,' a gay slur, and misuses of God's and Jesus' names. Characters swear even in church.
Sex and nudity
StrongNo sex scenes. The young man's father, a middle-aged police officer, is briefly seen fully naked from the front while asleep in a chair. Crude talk covers masturbation and whether a man has seen a woman naked.
Drinking, drugs and smoking
ModerateThe men drink pints at the pub every day, and characters get drunk; one turns to whiskey, grows belligerent and blacks out. Pipe and cigarette smoking.
Scary or intense scenes
ModerateGrim rather than scary: the self-mutilation, a donkey dying after swallowing a severed finger, a corpse pulled from the water, a house set ablaze, and an eerie old woman who foretells deaths.
Sensitive topics
- Self-harm
- Suicide
- Child abuse
- Sexual assault
- Animal death
Worth talking about
Colm would rather hurt himself than keep a friendship he finds dull, and Padraic's kindness curdles into revenge. Talk about ending relationships honestly, and how small grudges grow.
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Checked October 13th, 2026 against Common Sense Media, Plugged In, the MPA, bbfc.co.uk, movieguide.org. The age is our judgment, not an official rating, and every family draws its lines differently: read the notes, not just the number. Spotted something we missed? Tell us. How we rate.